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What I Notice When I Don’t Skip Ahead

     So, here we are, asking ourselves to not skip ahead, rush through life. Ask yourself this today: "What do I notice when I don't skip ahead?"

    What I notice myself, is that I don't feel rushed, first and foremost. When I feel rushed, I get too overwhelmed, and life gets boring. That's when life feels like a drag, and I honestly just do things that I label as "self care," but aren't always going to result in much more than feeling good at the time. Which seems to be a common theme with the younger generations, such as the one I am part of. Granted, I won't say what kind of "instant gratification" a lot of them like to chase, the older generations would be shaking their heads. 

    When I focus on rushing things, and chasing outcomes, I don't always take the time to be patient, and ensure there is quality to what process leads to that outcome! And let's be honest, patience is something many struggle with. Without patience, you don't get to optimize the moment. Meaning, you don't get to be fully present, make proper use of your time, or ensuring proper nourishment for yourself. 

    I still find myself wanting to skip ahead, and I feel the urge to sometimes when it comes to planning vacations for myself. I find myself being anxious about the cost, and all that which comes with going from being a kid or teenager, and just being present on vacation, to adulthood and being responsible for everything!

    In closing, it feels good to speak on this, to be HUMAN about things. We all struggle with various things, and Honesty feels better in some cases than progress does. And that is because Honesty leads us to Progress! If you need any help working through things, being honest in a judgement free environment/conversation, reach out! Either find the Routes Connected contact form, or email me damienf@routesconnected.com!


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