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Why I’m Taking the Long Way Through

    Life is interesting, at some point you realize that speeding through life, isn't the same as progressing through life! I realized that over the last five to six years, through various life experiences. Twenty twenty was part of that, the covid lockdown, I had just turned nineteen and bought myself a bucket list car. Being on the other side of things now, about to be twenty five, I knew that I wasn't progressing through life the way I needed to, just speed running to the point where life was "better." The thing is, I had no established idea of what "better" was for me, or how I'd get there, I had no direction in life! 

    Rushing through life, caused me to continually feel mentally at unrest, never was too stable. I never gave myself full attention to find resolution. It absolutely drained me creatively, and at twenty two, having lost a close family member, it all built up into lack of physically being there for myself. 

    In the end, I am realizing, that it is good to slow down, and be there for yourself. First and foremost, it is very important to recognize that. If you don't, you will be giving out I.O.Us, instead of actual effort. You will be absent for others, for relationships, for jobs. If you end up being absent in some form, it can lead to bigger issues. And somedays, I am still unsure how I have managed to get through it, or how I will continue to, but we take it day by day. I remember one thing I like to tell myself and others, that perfect is an ideology, and just being present is bare minimum. Sometimes bare minimum is okay some days, cause putting in the effort to try, is better than absence. Absence of your presence, symbolizes a lack of care. 

    So, I will leave you with those thoughts. I encourage you to check out routesconnnected.com , and to reach out if you have any questions, or need to just talk about life! You're not alone! 

    

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